May 18, 2021
Blog Episode 18
I Don’t Need Advice, I Need an Energy Shift
Do you ever just feel stubborn not wanting advice from others but you know you need an energy shift in the patterns, feelings and experiences you are having. Do you think we are just being picky in whom we listen to or we really aren’t open to change from accepting advice?
For some, energy and vibrations they pick up from others are a real thing. For others, it is more cerebral and they need more facts or proof to accept from others whatever it is they have to give.
In life, we make a kajillion choices a day. We also in American culture and probably other cultures as well, love to give advice. Do you take it personally if it is not accepted or understand the energy shift the person needs.
All too often in relationships we hear how people don’t want you to fix it, they just want to be able to vent or have a sounding board.
They know they just want the energy that is on them in the form of feelings to change or go away and unfortunately, many are really great at repressing them. Repressing to the point they let it infiltrate their being in the form of mind, body and spirit and those things don’t always want them.
Now think about it like this. You don’t want advice from others. Maybe your mind, body and spirit don’t want the energy this creates in them because you didn’t accept new perspectives or change and then they decide as a unit to retaliate on you.
Headaches, loss of sleep or appetite, erratic behavior, bad habits form, all because we made a certain choice that a slue of reasons caused.
Perhaps it was pride, or shame or our upbringing didn’t allow us to ask for help. We don’t want to be a burden. It makes us feel too vulnerable and we don’t want to appear weak or in a position that we are being bossed around.
But what would it look like if you did take advice? What if we were open to the possibility that we don’t have all of the answers and that there are caring people out there just wanting to help.
And what if you were the one giving yourself the advice. WHAT??? I give myself advice and I follow it. I mean what would that look like. I give myself the advice to stay consistent. Or I give myself the advice to forgive myself or better yet, forgive others. I give myself the advice to follow my mind’s advice or my body’s advice or my spirit’s advice. I think everyone has it, but I know it has been said that women definitely do.
Intuition. That feeling when your experience in the thoughts you tell yourself one thing but your gut tells you another. Hmm, do you ignore yourself much? Are you waiting on that energy shift to come. Sometimes, for that to happen, you have to follow the advice your tri-unit is telling you to get there.
Things tend to be scarier in our thoughts then in the reality. But if the reality is scary, isn’t that a good time to ask for help. Isn’t that a good time to seek advice on what others would do? Isn’t that a good time to listen to your tri-unit and let your own intuition help you declare the energy shift that you need and want. You are in charge of your own shift. ALWAYS. It doesn’t matter the circumstance. The end result always has your input.
An energy shift may be just what you need to move forward and thru coaching you actually get to participate in giving advice to your tri-unit of mind/body/spirit and receiving it.
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